Raising confident kids: the secret to navigating a tantrum like a pro

Una Archer joins Blanka Falk to explore attachment parenting and its impact on emotional regulation. Una MSC is passionate about helping parents raise emotionally secure children. She uses tried and tested attachment-informed Circle of Security Parenting framework to help parents feel more confident in their role and navigate the challenges of parenting in a more connected and peaceful way. They discuss viewing toddler tantrums as co-regulation opportunities and the importance of a secure base for children. Una highlights kindergarten teachers as secondary attachment figures and shares calming techniques for guilt-stricken parents. The episode emphasizes rupture and repair in parent-child relationships and how parental behavior affects children's emotions. Website link: https://www.helpyourchildthrive.co.uk/ Getting to know you form: https://forms.gle/ Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/c6ea65b609b8/ne6ruw8hbn

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Una Archer

Guest • 64%

Blanka Falk

Host • 36%

Chapters

0:00	Opening quote and introduction with Una Archer
1:51	Attachment parenting and emotional regulation
2:38	Toddler tantrums, co-regulation, and parental impact
5:22	Creating a secure base and understanding parental safety
9:34	Handling tantrums and shaping future emotional responses
11:32	Kindergarten teachers as secondary attachment figures
14:12	Calming techniques for parents and addressing guilt
19:05	Rupture and repair in parent-child relationships
24:09	Parental behavior and teaching mistake handling
25:31	Anchoring a child's emotional confidence
30:22	The importance of self-compassion for parents
32:11	Resetting parents' emotional states and techniques
34:04	Sponsor: Neurosomatic Intelligence School
34:28	Learning resources from Una Archer
35:12	Circle of Security Parenting courses
36:17	Closing remarks and gratitude

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